When I began my own journey, I would have never entertained half of the things I find enjoyable now.

I have certianly crossed the line into kink, I wasn't sure when or where exactly that it happened, but I am here to stay.

I am sure I have been guilty of doing the old double take many times, paticularly when it comes to my views of some of the heavier aspects of tourture play, rape, age play, beastiality, non-consensual abuse etc etc.

As a survivor of some pretty tramatic abuse I have a tendency to be overprotective of my sisters especially when I see them exhibiting behaviors that led to my own prior mistakes that allmost cost me my life. It is very difficult not to be judgemental or jump to conclussions.

I have found it is very hard for people in general to not be judgemental about a great many things especially about those kinks, or philosophical ways of bdsm that they do not really understand.

More often than not, the very people who claim they are the least judgmental are in fact ironically the most spiteful of "judges".

Even here on a bdsm site I have encountered very adament prejudice. Sometimes from the least likely of places. Unfortunately I have come to realize a lot of people don't bother to really read what a person says so much as read into what they think one is saying and allow thier own pre-judgments to cloud thier views.

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