[QUOTE=cadence;756664]I've always been a kinky fritter, ever since I can remember.
I have probably been more judgemental of myself than anyone else. [QUOTE]

OK, yes, that's me exactly. I spent so long judging myself, and it's such a relief to be slowly moving away from that, that I feel pretty humble around other people's kinks.

"Judge not lest ye be judged" - in my case, it means, judge not because you'll probably be doing that in about a month.

And yes, anything non-consentual, with people or animals or whatever, I certainly do judge. It's the things that people agree to do to each other that amaze, surprise, astound, repel, delight, seduce, astonish me. Frequently, when I am astonished or even repelled, I have less of an ick response than a feeling of, hmm, I wonder what they know that I don't?