With me it did "go" somewhere, alltough I am not sure it's is everyones cup of tea. Or that most dominants intentions in regard to it are taken to such extremes (weather that be from desire or lack of knowledge).
We started with the regular no cumming without permission incorperating no touching etc unless told too, varied with differing periods of no sexual relaese then progressed to keeping me on the edge of orgasm allmost constantly.
Then He did "it".
After talking with me at length about it, He conditioned me eventually to cum involuntaraly and sustain or stop mid-orgasm on command.
Now not only am I arroused all the time as I was before during CR I both fear and crave "it", he can quite litterally have me cum until I plead for mercy he if wishes. (I never thought in a hundred years I would beg to stop having orgasms trust me lol)
I know he has a very real power over me like never before. It was in fact very scary at first to actually be made so truely vulnerable.
It completely changed my whole perspective on M/s relationships to find he could hold such dominion over my body and mind.
I wouldnt trade the feeling for the world.