Oh I am quite sure it possible have a D/s relationship without sex, and am sure most to the great ones have at least started that way.

For me, I am not sure it could continue that way, because it is just so darn sexy to be controlled......

But perhaps that just reflects my personal weakness for the Dominant male........ (going off into a happy muse).

To turn the question around though, I would not wish to find myself in a relationship where D/s was only evidenced in a sexual context.

cariad