Tina -- you're putting yourself in the position of trying to make his judgement calls for him, based on what you know about him and yourself. Strange for a submissive.

Additionally you mention little or nothing about your own preferences (except perhaps by omission.). Do you love him? Do you want to be with him enough to try to overcome the differences?

Or is your posting an attempt to get agreement from impartial observers that you're not right for him? Why do you need such agreement?

I suggest you think about what you personally want, and let your Dominant friend decide what he wants.