Tina, when i first experienced D/s in R/L i had a long list of things that i didn't think appealed to me. After a couple of relationships i'm happy to report that my limits have changed drastically. There will always be things you won't agree on however you've agreed to be friends for longer than alot of people (that speaks volumes to me), i say take the plunge, you may find the water is fine! He obviously sees potential, relax and enjoy. Best of luck whatever you decide. kitty