So many good suggestions. I do suck on my Masters fingers as well. It makes me feel tons better. I also like to lay in his lap when I do it. It's warm and safe, and I'm able to forget about all the other things that are going on.

I hope some of the suggestions made work for you. Without my Master's help, my favorite way to relax is in a hot bath with candle light, nice oils... mmMmm... I want a bath now.