Hello usbabe
I can only agree on whats been said (for what is it worth) but nevertheless, you would be able to ask anything, with the possible exception of the name of my boss and his telephone number. :P

Two small details though, 10 months isn't a long time in BDSM circumstances, many communicate for years. And second I happen to have one unlisted number myself, and that is for keeping telephone salespersons off my back.

But as said in my first paragraph, the unwillingness to share, when you tell a lot, is a sign that something isnt right here.