Quote Originally Posted by jeanne View Post
We are happy. Yay!!


Also Jeanne, on this> "I haven't yet found my comfort zone in the amount of information I need/want from the two of them about their relationship, so I am feeling my way in it".

I meant to say that *for me* (and dunno if it'll help you in this for yourself?), what I Need to Know about my Partner(s) interactions/Relationship(s) with other(s), is what impacts me and my Relationship with that Partner. And/Or anything that may require a Re-Negotiation of my Relationship Agreements with that Partner. I do expect that the pre-existing Relationship Agreements and pre-established Bounderies will be upheld, or re-negotiated.

Things do Change and people do Grow. And sometimes not in ways we expect or want. But it is important to keep those close to us informed of where we are that impacts our Relationship with them. And also treats them with the same Respect we each wish for ourselves, and upholds established Trust placed in each of us by another with which we are committed. Again Honest Open Communication, not Always easy, but Always Always necessary.

Many things in each Relationship a person has is specific to That Relationship, and fairly personal between Them. I don't need to know every detail, or the he saids she saids, and a play by play detailed explanation of their moments together, and such. And which many times those things are simply TMI, as well as Truly have nothing to do with me.

My bottom line on these things is as stated; 1) If it impacts my Relationship with my Partner in some way 2) If something has occured or is wished for that will require Re-Negotiation between my Partner and I, That is all I really Need To Know.

Respectfully~SidheWolf