Quote Originally Posted by usbabe View Post
i'm looking for some input from D's and s's who have online experience please. For the last several months i have been talking to and tasking for a Dom who has requested alot of my personal information.....such as phone, email, address (i did not share), and all kinds of other personal information about me, yet He will not share any info with me.......all i know of Him is his email address. He won't tell me where he works......has told me what town he lives in.....maybe. It has been many months....like 10 and i have asked for a meeting and He says He wants to meet but he keeps making excuses. Has told me he has back problems and can not come to me.......but won't ask me to come there and i know he has flown a couple of times to other places. You know, as i write this i think i'm answering my own question. Anyway, He states He is single and i am His only interest but in the back of my mind......i'm thinking something is not on the up and up. i recently told Him if He can't share more with me i will have to move on. So my question is.......how much information do Y/you typically share in an online situation? Do you think i am correct in assuming something is fishy here? i would love some input.

usbabe
I think it depends on the Relationship and it's Goals. 10 Months of interacting with someone is a pretty long time I think. And Not *Exchanging* information is ummmm pretty scarey I'd think. You've given him yours, but he has not shared his? Hmmm. Nextly, If this was to go Real Time, why hasn't it already? Is the man halfway 'round the World or something?

We share most information with contacts we believe are serious AND may mesh well here, as it comes up in conversations. So I dunno why this guy wouldn't?

My thoughts are pretty much that he is either an online only, or hiding something. But you'd know best since you've talked with him.

Do what's best for you hon.
respectfully~SidheWolf