and then to flip the coin..
If you wait then you will loose out on lots of potentially great sex
If you have sex together then the first time might be bad and the second but it will get better with time AND practice.
Sex isnt normally especially spectacular the first time for anybody
Waiting just for waitings sake meaning that you wait until you find HIM... well it just might be so that you´ll have to wait for a long time.
Got kinda curious just how old you are and how old the boys are. I mean if they are real young like say sub 20 then they arent especially experienced, and neither are most girls tbh.