My wife is my sub. I married her- love her- for her strength, her resolve, her character of being..... It is a Gift to be married to her. It is an Honor that she would surrender that strength, that fierceness of Will, to me- to be owned by me. It speaks volumes about the trust we share and is a testament to her faith in my strength to care for her. It is my belief that it is the intimacy that is created by this extreme giving of trust that is the fertile soil that our desire for one another grows from. She gives me the gift of her vulnerability and I give her the gift of being able to be safely vulnerable. These gifts create an amazing synergy that lays the foundation for incredibly intimate, if rough, sexual encounters.