Quote Originally Posted by enthralled View Post
I 'm a cancer. The people who know me in the vanilla world say they can't imagine me submitting because I am in a position of control at work and in my day to day life but they do see that I am a very sensual/sexual person. Trying to find a Dom that can see past the assertive in control woman to the submissive lover has been challenging to say the least!
I had the same problem at one place i worked. Was always in control, always in charge. Got called "boss" a lot.

To what craven had said about this. It was a Leo Dom who saw right through it (or right through to my lower back where my Slave tat sits and was the only one with the balls to say anything about it.) It made work very much enjoyable to say the least. Damn Leo's!