How to "recognize" a submissive

[wind_dancer{W_W}]

well i am a sub turned slave and i can tell You that the biggest tip off is, WHEN IN A PUBLIC SETTING AROUND OTHER PEOPLE, we subs, at least me and the other subs that i know, are louder, extremely opinionated, can almost seem bitchy. BUT WHEN REMOTELY ALONE.... if the sub likes You they will seem to have almost a completely different personality.... of course this is if the sub likes you...which is probably what You want, we become much more "outwardly-submissive" or we tend to try to drop hints in seemingly round about ways. When trying to test out a Dom we like to subtley do "submissive" things... i cannot name specifics but we definately DO NOT like to make eye contact when alone with someone else if they are talking in even a slightly dominant manner. But we definately will drop slight verbal hints... it can be a reoccuring tone of the stories that they tell... there WILL be a submissive undertone that is easy to see but hard to pin-point........

PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF THIS IS SOMETHING OTHERS HAVE NOTICED
i MAY JUST HAVE MESSED UP HEHE

[leo9]

well i am a sub turned slave and i can tell You that the biggest tip off is, WHEN IN A PUBLIC SETTING AROUND OTHER PEOPLE, we subs, at least me and the other subs that i know, are louder, extremely opinionated, can almost seem bitchy. BUT WHEN REMOTELY ALONE.... if the sub likes You they will seem to have almost a completely different personality...

I think you may have a point here.

The first girl I ever tied up for sex was a tough bitch in public, but when we were kissing I noticed that she got hotter if I held her wrists. So I started pinning them behind her or out to the sides and she couldn't get enough of it... After I first tied her up she said "How did you know I wanted that?" and I said "You told me."

But with more experience I've learnt to spot the signs without getting that close, even if my "asdic" is intuitive and I mostly don't know what's clueing me in. I remember once when I was in a new counselling group and we were doing the round of introductions, and as one girl spoke up I felt the buzz and thought "Her, eh?" I didn't do anything about it, because it's very bad form to hit on your counselling partners; but I was open about my own tastes with the group, and months later she phoned me because she'd been getting overwhelming masochistic fantasies and I was the only person she knew who wouldn't think she was sick. I was glad to be able to help, but I also had a smug little feeling of "I knew that!"