I tried it, it does nothing for me.

So when I got together with hubby, one of the hard limits we set was switching (either of us).
Hence I donīt have to worry about it.

Moreover, I think one should only do what feels genuine and good, but thatīs just me. I have heard of other subs who do this, and enjoy it.

But I always wondered what the point in doing this was. I mean, if it feels wrong for the sub, and if it therefore feels "fake" for the third party, what is the use of that?

I find nothing worse to bear than a fake Dom/me, so I might just be a little sensitive on that topic...