Quote Originally Posted by jeanne View Post
I have noticed many male subs posting introductions, but then they seem to disappear. I have no idea why - thay may be joining in order to access the library chat rooms. I don't visit there so I don't know that for a fact.
It also seems to me that they post intros and then disappear. And lately it seems like there are an ever increasing number of male subs joining and posting those intros and even reposting intros a few weeks later. But they get no replies except the usual "welcome" ones and if you visit their page they have neither visitor messages nor friends. This leads me to believe that there are so few Dommes that they get no hits and just gradually fade away. Jeanne may be right about the chat rooms but I don't go there either so I don't know.


Quote Originally Posted by voxelectronica View Post
I also think (and this may get me in trouble) that a lot of men aren't communicators. Going into a forum is a very social communication type thing and it's simply not what appeals to men. Though there are of course exceptions to this. I think that's a factor.
Dittos. Men in general are very poor communicators. A common occurance is this: First, we are treated with the mind-boggling news of, "Hello. I am submissive and I want a woman to dominate me and beat me up. Call me." Unoriginal, unexciting, unexceptional, dull, stale..........and so on. Then, we go visit their profile page and we are overwhelmed and brought to our knees with the enlightening and refreshing information that they are: "Male". "Submissive". If we get really, really lucky that day we might discover that they are located in "No Where".

What????? Do they think they are paying by the word? I'm not a Domme but if I were this sure wouldn't attract my attention.

Moonlitsub, the answer is probably a combination of the above.

DIXIE