Hi - As a male sub i joined this site a couple of months ago. While i have looked around the site i spend most of my time in the tasking arena. I originally said the 'hello' thing and was welcome by a number of people. But other than the tasking i have not been involved with other aspects of the site. i have gone to chat rooms a couple of times but spent my time there as an observer - trying to find out who's talking to who. i find it fairly confusing. When i have more time i would like to chat - but i'm not sure i'll ever be comfortable in a chat room with 18 people talking and i don't know who's talking to who. maybe i can participate in these forums more where at least everyone is talking about the same topic. - Just adding my 2 cents. Thanks.