Quote Originally Posted by Pearlgem View Post
"Please Sir, I would find what you ask very difficult to do. I find the idea very distressing." The whole point of a BDSM interchange is that the Dom knows where the sub is at. Don't blurt your feelings out - be respectful but don't let resentment build up. Why not respectfully suggest to him a way of doing it you think you could handle?
Couldn't have said it better myself. The only addition I could make is my Master expects an explanation for my refusal. If it's reasonable, he alters the task. Depending on what it is he'll offer his reasoning as to why he wants it done.