So after reading this all I have to say is OMG!

I never realized that I was *lucky*. My first encounter with a male sub was what made me be a switch because *he* was that good. He would say things like "i like it when you do this, what else do you want?"... the entire thing was almost... innocent in nature.

I'm still very selective to who I talk to and wont engage in conversation that's at all sexual in nature until *I* choose to make that the topic. So far my lucks been pretty good with this approach. I would however love it, if there were more male subs who contributed to the site.

I am leaning towards Fetish's idea as another contributing factor though.