Male submissives

[yama]

Dear Dave, I avoid chat rooms for the same reason
you describe so well. Forums are much better. Some may
have the ability to follow chats, I have not.

May I bring up an off-topic subject? I don't want to start a new thread
just for that. In your post I can see that you use lowercase "i" in the
pronoun "I". I have seen it in many posts of subs. First I thought
it was just a superficial typing, but I had a chat session with a gentleman
who demanded me using a lowercase "i", and made me understand that
it was a humiliation. Well, I loved it, only I kept making mistakes,
and was always punished painfully for those. It was OK with me,
I loved the punishments, too. I am in full peace with the thing.

But I want to ask (not just Dave, but everybody): am I supposed
to use lowercase "i" on the Forums, too? If I am, I will be glad to do it,
I really want to humiliate myself in every possible way. Only it will
slow down my typing, I am used to the opposite. And I will do lots of
mistakes, of course.

So please let me know what am I supposed to do. I will be docile
and obedient. Thank you very much.

Hi - As a male sub i joined this site a couple of months ago. While i have looked around the site i spend most of my time in the tasking arena. I originally said the 'hello' thing and was welcome by a number of people. But other than the tasking i have not been involved with other aspects of the site. i have gone to chat rooms a couple of times but spent my time there as an observer - trying to find out who's talking to who. i find it fairly confusing. When i have more time i would like to chat - but i'm not sure i'll ever be comfortable in a chat room with 18 people talking and i don't know who's talking to who. maybe i can participate in these forums more where at least everyone is talking about the same topic. - Just adding my 2 cents. Thanks.

[DaveAM]

Dear Dave, I avoid chat rooms for the same reason
you describe so well. Forums are much better. Some may
have the ability to follow chats, I have not.

But I want to ask (not just Dave, but everybody): am I supposed
to use lowercase "i" on the Forums, too? If I am, I will be glad to do it,
I really want to humiliate myself in every possible way. Only it will
slow down my typing, I am used to the opposite. And I will do lots of
mistakes, of course.

Yama, i saw the use of lower case i in some of the stories i've read. i liked the idea of making myself less important in this small manner. i have no idea what others do or expect. If it slows down typing you probably don't want to bother unless you are directed to by a Master/Mistress.

Merry Christmas Everyone.

[yama]

Dear Dave, thank you for your useful reply. I will use lowercase "i" without any hesitation if somebody declares that she/he is offended by my uppercase "I"s. I accept this correction not only from dominants but from submissives, too. Nothing want I less than to offend anybody.

It is only that I trust the judgement of Sir Oz very much, and will base on it and my own clumsyness till there aren't other reasons. And I can see myself that the use of lowercase is widespread but not general.

So much for the Forums. Messaging to a Dominant, male or female, I feel natural the use of lowercase "i" and uppercase "You". D/double C/characters I don't understand and will not use.

Thank you again very much indeed. Merry Christmas to you and everybody.

Yama, i saw the use of lower case i in some of the stories i've read. i liked the idea of making myself less important in this small manner. i have no idea what others do or expect. If it slows down typing you probably don't want to bother unless you are directed to by a Master/Mistress.