If the Dom/me will not respect your 'no' in a non-sexual discussion in a public forum, how will you be able to trust that they will respect your hard limits when you are bound and gagged?
very, very true, Euryleia. I know I say it every day, but TRUST!
Cambr1ge, you know what is acceptable to you and what is not. You have these boundaries for a reason- follow your heart