Quote Originally Posted by Laila View Post
I think what got me in this funk was that after I lost my Master, I have surfed the net for - I don't know - look what's out there. And so many Masters don't treat submissive with any respect at all.
It might be for someone but I personally choose very carefully who is allowed to call me a slut and that always under the deeper knowledge that really, I am completely his and he is mine. I am still a human being worth just as much as any Dom or any sub...
You know, it's OK to just tell the person this. I wouldn't just assume someone's an asshole because he applies a certain vocabulary too soon - but I would if he continued after I told him to stop.