We have some friends who own a BDSM B&B. The place is open to the general public and one would never know what goes on. Upon entering it looks like any other old time country B&B. While the place can be booked exclusivly by bdsm groups I think to make ends meet they also have to cater to the general public. If they have a mix of bdsm and vanilla guest then things are very discrete. Off from the bar/lounge/common area is the maids closet. If you opened the door to this closet all you would see is linens and cleaning supplies ect. You would never see the door in the back that leads to the basement dungeon. You can also enter the dungeon from an outside door with the proper key. The dungeon is very well set up with a wet bar, bathrooms, and plenty of space and equipment for both private and public play. They have very strick rules with no exceptions. When there are vanilla guests present you might see a sub with a day collar on in a public area but nothing more than what one would see in public anywhere. If the place is booked by bdsm'ers then the no vacancy sign goes up and the entrance is locked at 10m At this time you are apt to hear the crack of a whip at any moment at any place through out!