i know for certain that there are men out there that are highly respectable Doms... my Lord for instance.. or the r/l doms of many of my chat friends..... you just gotta be patient.. i know i know no one EVER wants to be patient i wasnt for a very long time but when i started to just be myself and not worry about the Doms around me i found the Dom that has changed my life... just relax and once you stop looking it will happen i PROMISE