It depends on where your looking for these dominant men. If your looking for a Dominant man online in the hopes of it becoming something more. You may get your heart broken a few times before lucking up and finding that "One". Now if you just want online and can't step out into "flesh" of bdsm, nothing wrong with that. In an online committement, theres trust and loyality thats just as good for some.

I know i may sound like a broken record, when i say this!

Try finding local bdsm groups, that way you can start with munches(vanilla meetings) or maybe attend a small party of some sort. I know in small rural areas the pickings for bdsm groups are slim, but try looking and market yourself (in a respectful manner). There are Dominant men out there, but in my opinion...it seem the ones we really want...aren't online (for some of us)

good luck.... I know what i said is easier said then done, but once you get out there....you'll wonder why you havent done it sooner!