Gee, I know this is a sub- dominoated thread, but I have got to put my 2 cents in.

I think it is funny. when lisa told me about this thread, I had one thought. the sub who is worrying if she is the most "Subbish"- the ones that want to tell you how subby they are, how much better they are- they have missed very important thing- there is no one who's opniion should matter other than their dom's. If they were really a total slave, they would most likley not have time or inclination to post here about it, right?

Besides- each couple is different. does the Dom want a total slave, someone without a spark of defiance, or a firery Brat? no two doms are alike, so no to "perfect" subs would be the same.