aligning your will to His

[Pearlgem]

Thanks, sinfulsex. I'm not searching out the counterculture in this thread but I am so appreciative of the wonderful women of all ages on here.

[BryansGrrrl]

Wow, that was inspirational, Pearlgem!

You've said it better than I could. Your Dom may help you to be happy and to learn about yourself, but S/He is NOT RESPONSIBLE for your happiness, safety and well-being. Only YOU can be responsible for that.

And only YOU can prevent forest fires, but I digress....

[AdrianaAurora]

First of all I have to apologise for raising the idea that I felt us subs were all in competition here to have the best sub credentials. I personally didn't get that impression, but when I raised the point of competition I think I was really expressing my own insecurities, wondering if I should be different from how I am because I didn't see anyone just like me.

You mean we aren't?

Lol, Oh God Pearlgem don't apologize about that because it does exist, but my Husband says that is to be expected because women always do that (sort of like a female version of "mine's bigger") no matter what we are talking about, (and if the Wise one says so, it must be true lol).

As for insecurities - we all have them, and this is the place we come to air them out.

Beautiful thread Pearlgem, and even if I can't relate to on the older submissive thing, you have hit so many truths with it that just ring true - it is always a pleasure to read your thoughts.