Our sexuality isn't a one size fits all sort of thing. BDSM isn't one for all and all for one, either. For example, just because you are into bondage, doesn't mean you'll like pain. You need to take your time.

Read the threads here on the library, peruse lots of erotic stories (it's homework! lol), chat with your friends, go to a munch. Figure out what are the things that make you squirm in a good way and what makes you squick. This is a journey of exploration and discovery for you. Enjoy it!

Be honest about your experience level, expectations, and fantasies with any potential partner. Communicate with them your hard and soft limits and what you are willing to try. If your partner now or in the future isn't willing to take the time to let you learn, then they aren't worthy of your gift of submission.

Finally, trust is not something that is automatic just because someone calls themselves Master or Mistress. It must be earned. Your partner needs to show you over time that they will do what they say they will do.

Best wishes as you move forward into the life.