Quote Originally Posted by yama View Post
However, recently I met a gentleman (online) who called me "little one". It was a wonderful feeling. I felt such a tenderness in it that I immediately asked him whether I was allowed to kiss his hand (virtually). And I observed that there are many female subs in the Library who are addressed "little one" by their doms. I feel that the tender word doesn't take the feeling of being humiliated (what I seek in BDSM) but gives it a deep dimension.

Such a wonderful feeling isn't it? Sir rarely uses (little girl or princess) when He is pampering me (playing with my hair, rubbing my back, snoogling before bed) and it feels wonderful! A totally different feeling of satisfaction from being called 'slut'.

The difference to me (and I'm sorry for gong off topic here Laila) is that 'slut' is usually used when I am looking after his needs. The more he calls me slut, the more I know he understands I want to satisfy his needs, & take care of him. The softer terms of endearment are used when he is taking care of me. it makes me feel safe & protected & cared for.

Both make me warm & fuzzy (well actually one makes me warm & tingly ) and neither deters from my role as sub or his love for me.