Carpe Coma
That's a very good question and I am happy to say that it has not created problems with anyone other than my husband. Work and other social groups are fine. But it is a problem when my hubby and I argue about it. Then I feel self conscious because I am still horny, but just horny and upset.

I am 34 years old. Hopefully, menopause isn't coming along too soon

It's really interesting that you ask what I was like before. I've spent lots of time analyzing this and looking back now that I know that I am a submissive. I can easily say that I have always had a strong sex drive, I just never knew when I would actually cum during sex. Given that there were many times that sex was not enjoyable, I could easily give or take it.

I had only experienced actually being horny a handful of times up until my awakening. When I say being horny i mean that there's a physical feeling that is urging one towards sex. Other times it was more in my head than a physical feeling. Now though, it's a physical feeling that stays with me for long periods of time. It's almost impossible to ignore.


Twisted32,

Thank you for your insight. This has been quite a journey of discovery for me. I am thinking that maybe its the same for my husband. I probably just need to give him the same kind of time that I needed to work these things out. Your post helped me to come to this conclusion. I am just shocked that this has been such a huge issue. You should have seen us two years ago. Then we were having it out cause HE wanted it much more often than I did and I wasn't feeling it. Neither of us ever thought that there would be the day when he would tell me that he did NOT want to do it!