I, in fact love to know about real encounters. It doesnt make me jealous and or upset. If someone doesnt like reading then, then move on to another post. Im a member of other bdsm forums and they have a section reguarding real life encounters, and sometimes its not even sexual its just about meeting someone from the forums.

If you want to request that as a category they you would need to talk to an Admin. maybe delia, or Torq. Maybe make a thread asking if people would be interested.

As far as me, its nice to know that people from this forum and or other forums meet peoeple, i have met more then a handful of people from *This* forum alone, most of it non sexual, i even met my now boyfriend from here. So it may give hope to people or just give people something to read