i remember reading that article when she first wrote it...I read her column & blog regularly, she's a smart & interesting lady.

I can pretty much just chime in and say that Mistress Matisse is totally right on this one. And I like her observation that she's never heard of an enclave of bisexual switches, they tend to be far more rigid than that.
I prefer my BDSM mixed into my daily life in doses, not as the be-all and end-all of what I do.