I said on another thread, rather sanctimoniously, I'm afraid, oh, well, of course I always use a condom. But once I didn't. That wasn't safe or sane, and the fact that it was consensual just says something about me. I have possibly taken risks in my life, but that was the riskiest.

Having dodged a bullet, the only thing you can do is be sure you never have to dodge it again. If you've done something risky yourself, angela_shy, just be glad that you are here to post about it, and resolve to take better care of yourself the next time.