Ok, here is something on-topic as well... What I cherish about my dom is his patience... his knowledge of many things... his self-control... his letting me make my own experiences, good or bad, without rubbing it in too bad afterwards *g*... his way of never being grossed out at my desires, but always being encouraging and fulfilling them when he feels I am ready for them... his way of knowing better than myself if I can or cannot take something... his scent... his looks... his eyes... his hands... his voice... oh, I guess you get the picture. *smiles*