When did you know?

[ben'sslave]

It was sort of strange for me. I've always been a very dominant, abrasive person. One would think I'd have turned out to be Dominant.

But when I began to be sexually aware, I didn't fantasize about dominating others, as I do in the rest of my life. I fantasized about being dominated.

Like Chains of Gonzo i have always been very a dominant person but always fantasized about being dominated. And that's just what it was a fantasy until a guy i was talking to recognized my submissive side and decided to bring that side of me out.