[QUOTE=moonlitsub;786898]...I work in a kitchen overnight and my boss is pretty chill well a chill as a short french man can be but I keep wanting to ask for specific days off (one day every month) so I can go to the monthly munch in the area, but he knows me I don't ask for days off unless its important, so I don't know what to tell him so I can get said day off without having to trounce out my whole sexual lifestyle. Any suggestions ladies and gents?
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Chill=Boss
you=you

you: Chill some of my friends get together every month and spend time together, i don't usually go because i work and they understand that, but a few of them have asked me multiple times and have been giving me crap because they say i am being "antisocial" <you could let Chill know that you are trying to be more social with your friends and that is something that you are working on - which puts more power in his hands, not sure if you are comfortable with that but it might work, then Chill is provided with an oprotunity to be supprotive to you>. i don't want to be rude but i couldn't say yes until i asked for a day off, could i have <insert day off here>.

i got invited to go to a <insert event here e.g. party, get together with friends, etc. >. i don't want to be rude but i couldn't say yes until i asked for a day off, could i have <insert day off here>.