I have lived a pretty normal and boring life to this point, and the most abnormal thing about me is that I was mildly depressed in high school. I have never been abused or assaulted (sexually or otherwise), and I have ended most of my relationships by mutual agreement. I am VERY dominant, demanding and forceful in everyday situations and even with my husband. Being submissive has nothing to do with my history, but rather everything to do with my relationship with my Master and our mutual curiosity to LIVE in this world while we are both here.