Online is where I started before doing it in real life. Although its not as fun as the real thing but you get to play with your mind with new and exciting ideas. What I did with my online sub before was, we made a list, things I love to see him do and things he enjoys. Rated each of them based on hardness of the task. Example, once I tasked him to wear a lingerie under his business attire, one for each day and additional for the succeeding day. Monday told him to wear a crotchless panties to work, Tuesday panties and stockings, Wednesday with garter belt and so... It turns him on all the time. I would send sexy text at all times during his work...