Quote Originally Posted by denuseri View Post
Very very very well said oh great dom that is Oz, I couldnt say it better Sir.

The only thing I might add, is "read" the posts in these forums, dom/sub/switch etc, the multitude of differeing perspectives can garner you some valued wisdom.

I also reccomend seeking out experienced submissives on line that are willing to roleplay eaither directly, or indirectly with you or discuss D/s phycology from the submissive perspective. I have found that to be a very safe way for a sub or dom to practice the inheirent "therory" of D/s that lack a partner in real life.

Of course the best way to go about that in chat isnt to go whisper crazy, you wont get anything substantial from such activities. Patience and honesty go a long way.

Some experienced submissives (like myself and many others) are more than willing to lend a hand in the training of a dominant, after all if he works out to become a good dom, she has done a great service to one of her sisters of the collar.

The real key is not only in mastering your own mind, but hers as well.
Beautifully Said