I think that a lot of the fear of doing things 'wrong' comes from the fact that usually, people want to take on a role and (literally) act according to what they think that role entices.

Well, I'm not an experienced DOM, but I never act. I'm me. Always.

So, my little addition to the subject is: in the first place and foremost, be yourself. Don't put up an act, especially if you're not sure to be able to carry the role through to the end...


JJ