What Do You Admire About Your Dominant?

[aussiesubgirl]

I will do my best not too wax on too much as well....but no promises (once I get started on my fave subject...hehehe!)

- I have NEVER felt safer and happier than when I am pressed against his chest and surrounded by his big strong arms...the first time he hugged me (on our first date) I felt like I had finally come home after travelling around the world on foot...I could happily stay there for ever

- EVERYONE knows when he walks into a room...he lights up any / every space with his confidence, sexual energy, fierce wit and intelligence....sounds cliche but it's true (and drives my green eyed monster insane ALL the time! *my issue, I know...working on that!*) men want to BE him and women want to be WITH him (and so do some of the men!) ;o) He has a physical and mental presence that attracts people to him without any effort on his part. He also has a sense of humour that makes me so turned on it drives me crazy...my favourite name for him is 'you cheeky bastard!' which he loves...and fuels his evil sense of humour further...

- OK, call me shallow but he is the best looking man I have EVER seen, with a body to die for - a real man's body, strength, muscles, that masculine smell, golden hair on his chest...sorry.....where was I....*phew* ok, dimples and a smile that can be both angelic and/or sardonically evil depending on his mood...light green eyes that can stare into your soul....(and a few other delicious physical attributes that I will leave to your avid and fertile imaginations!!!). I have never been one to focus on looks before EVER, but hell when the one you want on the inside happens to come wrapped in a deliciously gorgeous package on the outside - who's to complain?!....hehehe yes, I am DEEPLY shallow these days....but I DO admire that about him...in fact I could happily spend the next few months just 'admiring' him from every possible angle ;o)

- His personal, moral and emotional strength, sense of justice, integrity and willingness to fight for what he believes in....and that he is not afraid to BE himself at all times - no matter the consequences. He never lies, and holds himself and others to higher standards of honesty and self reflection than society generally demands, but also has the strength of character to forgive if someone fails but genuinely apologises and regrets the lapse (OK that was me...I fucked up *badly* he forgave me, and I have never been more grateful of anything. I will never make that mistake again and it taught me a very tough lesson but one that I needed to learn)

- His genuine desire to build my self-esteem and nurture my growth as a person both inside and outside of the BDSM 'realm'...after literally YEARS of dating men (and women) who controlled me by destroying what little self esteem I had, manipulated and turned me inside out so I didn't know which way was up and who I was...he will not allow it when I continue to relive their psychological abuse by believing/thinking/saying I am unattractive, stupid or useless...none of which is true, even I can logically see that now, but was so ingrained it took many months of mental re-training and gentle discipline when those thoughts polluted and overwhelmed my mind. No-one has ever cared enough about me to let ME care about me again.

- He has overcome every horrible, sad, soul destroying obstacle life has thrown at him, and still has more positive energy and love to give than anyone I have ever met. He is like a force of nature. He has made an incredible success of his life and seeks to help others do the same. He has even extended forgiveness to some of those that have hurt him beyond words when he was a child / teenager - something I wish I was strong enough to do, but am not yet.

- He is an amazing lover that is not afraid of anything or any reaction. No more needs to be said. I could not imagine ever finding a better match sexually. EVER.

- He listens to me. He pays attention. He anticipates my needs. He knows me better than I know myself.

- He is my equal or better in every way...and I could never respect, trust or submit to anyone that wasn't.

Yep...I could go on all night (looking at his stunning pic as we speak while I wait for him to get back from the other side of the world and get home to me once more....only 4 days to go after 8 weeks of longing and thousands of Euros in phone bills on either side...!!!)

If you are still awake, thanks for reading and sounds like we are some incredibly lucky ladies/guys on this site...it has given me faith there ARE wonderful people out there, even if they are so very hard to find sometimes

xxx

PS he is also a moody bastard, too smart for his own good and loves nothing more than to 'jerk my chain' some days just for his own twisted fun....and his job (working for the UN - yeah, saving the freakin world *makes me feel useless sometimes despite loving my own career*) takes him away from me for months at a time, to god-forsaken places with only a few days for ourselves when he returns....so ain't nobody perfect, but fuck he's the closest I have ever seen!! ;o)