Excellent thread, damyanti, thank you so much for it.

I am at a complete loss there as well.

As I am way too proud for my own good, I never considered begging. Neither did hubby request it. (I can beg him to _stop_ something, or beg him _not_ to do something... but the begging _for_ something is nothing that would go over my lips easily.)

However, I found myself fancying and trying things online that I would not have considered up to now in r/l. Much of it goes in the humiliation direction. :-)

But I still am at a loss when I get asked to beg for something. I feel like an analphabet who gets ordered to read aloud in front of the whole class. *ugh*

It is the worst when my first attempt is followed by something like "you can do that better". Did I mention I have issues with my pride getting in my way? What that sort of demeaning comment gets people in r/l is usually an angry look and a "fuck off and do it yourself if you think you are so much better at it".

*shrugs* I hope for more enlightening posts in this thread.