I believe I can be learnt, if you do a search online regarding female ejaculation you will find a great deal of information. You have to be able to locate and stimulate the g-spot in order to cause it to happen and also a great deal is going to depend on you and your partners communication skills.

For me the first time was a surprise as I had said earlier and while I can not control if it will happen, I do know how to increase the chances of it happening. I also believe it is something that is easier for women to do as they grow older due to the fact the the vaginal walls thin as we age and thus making it easier to locate the g-spot to begin with.

Have some fun and do some research. I will include this Link because it has a good diagram of how to find the g-spot if you didn't know how to. If nothing else you and your partner will have fun with that. The biggest thing is for you both to relax and have fun without any pressure to have it happen to begin with. Don't make it a mission. It will suck all the fun out of sex for you both.

Have fun,