Again thanks for the input it is apperciated. We have talked about the issue of a Dom sneaking me away or him being consumed by another sub.

I have to admit that the first time in my adult life I am very secure in this relationship. We talk and talk alot, there is alot of respect and love there so I don't think that is a worry for us. We have been through alot and still always end up taking care of each other.

We are looking at joining a local club also, so maybe we will find a local, who knows.

May the search begin.

Thank you so much