this may be on a tangent a bit but here goes,

the diathesis-stress model may be a way to look at this, or at least a variation of it. this model suggests that someone is genetically pre-disposed to a certain trait but it is the environment that triggers the traits to be expressed.

at first i thought this was a good way to describe it because it is an interactionalist approach to nature and nurture but the more i think about it how can submission be genetic? how is it possible to have a gene for submissiveness?

so that brings you around to the nurture argument. i have ALWAYS had a normal up bringing so why would i be drawn to something, for want of a better word, kinky?

but then on the other hand looking back i can see my kinks being so obvious when i was v young so meh, my answer is, you cant know, there isnt an answer!!!!

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