WOOHOO! this is my favourite thread on this site - it gives me licence to do something that i sooo longed to do... wax lyrical about the person who transforms my life from the misery of the mundane, into something exciting, with seduction, spark and friendship.

this man came into my life unexpectedly, saw something in me i didn't see in myself, and is leading me gently and erotically in my sexual evolution.

more than this, he is my better intellectually - this is a huge turn-on! he insists we are equals, but different; however, i trust his judgement more than my own - time and experience has shown him to be more often right than me or most other people. perhaps because he thinks more deeply than i do, reflects more thoroughly on any situation; i am bright enough but my thought patterns are fleeting and hurried. i wish i could be more like him.

we have great discussions, invariably resulting in me learning something!

and how often does he patiently explain some subtlety, then hear me making the same mistake over, then explain patiently again, over and over! the man is a saint! well maybe not quite

his style of humour is clever and saucy; he shows caring and responsibility to those he cares about; he has a sense of honour that runs right to his core, and a pride in his self and his nationality that inspires me.

he has never rushed me. he has never made me feel uncomfortable or distrusting, going to enormous lengths to make me relax with him, working with me to help me overcome my inadequacies and fears, to the point i am now opening up areas i've never revealed to anyone ever. i feel confidence that he does not condemn me for my freakish kinks ...in fact he helps me understand why i have them.

he is very well-travelled, worldly-wise, and experienced in many areas, not least sexually. in addition he has the sexiest smile...

i love spending time with him! i feel i don't deserve his attention, but i'm very, very grateful he chose me.