submisives they become or they are born with it?

[denuseri]

I like how you put this, very concise and to the point but it does raise this question...why do some choose to find a partner who is dominant over them when they could look for a partner who is submissive to them? This I believe is the original question and this I believe is where our nature comes into play.

ahhh now there is the rub GoodGirl winks

Something inside me allways brought me back to seeking that special someone who would dominant me.

No matter how many times I left this way of life or what had happened to make me leave I have allways returned like a moth to the flame as if by instinct.

In that I honestly do believe it is in our natures for at least some if not all of us that are awakened to the joys of domination and submission.