I don't have children but I am the homecare provider for my mother which makes things kinda hard sometimes as far as bdsm in our house goes.

There is no way in hell I am going to come out about my kink to my ultra conservative mother in what should be her golden years, especially considering she is in poor health.

Its all behind closed doors here. We have to keep things quiet etc just as if we had children.

This doesnt mean we dont have fun, it just means we have to be more discret. Sometimes my mother stays at my sisters and sometimes we restrict our activities to the privacey of our bedroom and or after hours that she is asleep.

Fortunately for the heavy stuff my husband has figured out a way to convert the old garage out back into a sort of dungeon that doesnt look like one when its not in use (its his work shop by day).

Before that it was hotel rooms which gets expensive.

Here are some links where the many members of the Library discussed this very topic before, they are full of some great ideas.

Good luck!




http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...light=children

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...light=children

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...=children+home

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...=children+home

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...=children+home

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...=children+home