I too am learning and discovering in this my new journey. I came here just for some answers to a few questions. but the more i ask my questions the more questions I have to ask. It seems I have a lifetime that has been saved up. I am discovering my dominate tendencies and my secret desires of being a submissive. I have been able to let my dominate side rule with a few submissives who were willing to put there trust into a new member. It is a powerful feeling to have that much trust granted to you. Granted it was virtual and not in person. But the whole experience was real enough for me to see it in my head. I am also exploring my submissive side. Which I have found several traits that I have in common with. I am testing my own boundaries, pushing them seeing how far I can go with out losing my self and yet seeing my potential, I wonder how far I will be able to go. It isnt the destination that I am after right now, just the wonder of the journey that I am on. I feel as if I have just woken up - I guess in a way I have