Quote Originally Posted by cherryatom View Post
Like I said I"m knew to this and after a particularly rough session where I might have been punished I feel an intense desire to cuddle. It feels oddly inappropriate though. Does anyone else have this feeling or know why someone would want to cuddle after being punished?
Thanks for the reply. I haven't played since my last post, but I'll keep your suggestions in mind!

And as for your question, I think after I was punished, I'd need to be cuddled and comforted and reassured that I've been forgiven and the dominant and I are good again. I think I'd need to be shown that I'm still cared for. I haven't actually experienced this, but I really think that's how I'd react.

Hope it helps!